I hate living without a dishwasher. Chris probably hates it worse because doing dishes is his job. (Cooking, laundry, and grocery shopping are mine.) We are both looking forward to someday (hopefully very soon) owning a house, and having a dishwasher.
In the meantime, I try to avoid dirtying more dishes than necessary. Given the water it takes to wash and rinse a dish by hand, it's also an eco-friendly gesture.
Unfortunately, I have yet to live in a municipality that recycles foam. However, since I can't really recycle it, I can feel good about reusing it. Ground turkey, which comes pre-packed in deep foam trays, goes on sale frequently, so I use it often. If I'm mixing up the meat with spices for burgers or bread crumbs and egg for meatballs or meatloaf, I do it in the foam tray. I cut around three sides of the plastic sheet on top, leaving it attached on one side. Then, I lift the meat, take out the paper or plastic absorbent pads from the bottom, and discard them. After mixing the meat, I pull the plastic sheet over it and press the sheet down so it sticks to and covers the meat. I let the meat sit in the fridge for a couple hours to let it absorb the spices, then mix it again before shaping it. When I'm done with the tray, I can just toss it. Convenience.
Another way I spare Chris from washing an extra pan is to cook a whole meal in one pan. I will cut root vegetables (potatoes, carrots, turnips, yams, etc.) into chunks and lay chicken pieces over it in a rectangular glass pan. As the chicken cooks, the juices moisten the vegetables. (It takes about 45 minutes to 1 hour on 375.) This is great when the chicken is being cooked with a glaze, sauce, or marinade.
When I do pasta and sauce (from a jar, I used to make from scratch, but with Chris' tastes, it's not worth it), I use the same pot. I boil the pasta first, then drain it in the colander. I then use the still-warm pan to heat up the sauce on the burner on medium-low heat for a few minutes. I toss in the pasta while it's still steaming, so the finished dish is hot, but not too hot.
I drink lots of water. I have my designated water cup for the day, so I only use that one, and don't generate several dirty cups. It doesn't go into the sink until the day is done.
Not having a dishwasher still isn't as nice as having one. With some simple strategies, though, it's not all drudgery.